Tuesday, July 7, 2015

From Homecoming King, To Homeschooling Dad - Part 8: A New Calling


I certainly did not plan on taking off for over a month from blogging, however we have been very busy moving. Now that we are settling into our new home, I realized I need to complete this blog series. In the previous parts to this series I have basically shared most of my testimony in becoming a Christian, a husband, and a father (and I encourage you to read the entire From Homecoming King, To Homeschooling Dad series - Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6, and Part 7). Since becoming a Christian, my life has been directed by my Lord Jesus Christ through His Father's Holy Spirit. The Bible says the Holy Spirit will teach you all things (John 14:26) and sure enough the Holy Spirit has taught me a lot about myself, others, and life in general. One of the many things I am very thankful for is that the Holy Spirit taught me what is most important in life.

 As I have shared in my previous posts, I once was concerned about what people thought of me so much so that I compromised on God's Word. I also enjoyed my high school days and being crowned Homecoming King. I always thought that when I had children they would experience the same things I did in school. However the Holy Spirit has taught me differently. 

For example, the Bible says that when a person gets saved and becomes a Christian old things pass away and all things become new (2 Corinthians 5:17). The newness of life and direction of the Holy Spirit did not only teach me to live a holy life but also that I had a different calling in life. Not only different, but new! This calling was and is to be a HOMESCHOOLING DAD!  In this calling, I was hesitant since who am I to "teach" my children.  I haven't had formal education to certify me to teach. I don't know anything about lesson plans.  How could I educate my children?  It was then the Holy Spirit reminded me that I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (Philippians 4:13). If I rely on Him I can do this. Will there be challenges? Sure. Will there be obstacles? Sure! But the Holy Spirit showed me that God did not give me children without the ability to train them up in the way they should go (Proverbs 22:6). The Holy Spirit is the one that will enable me to teach them diligently (Deuteronomy 6).  I realized that if I trust in the Lord and not lean unto my own understanding, He would direct my paths (Proverbs 3:5). God has also given me an intelligent, caring, and patient wife to help me in this new calling. God has also blessed Colleen and I with Godly advisors through the homeschool community and the Bible says "Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety" (Proverbs 11:14). So I have been taught that what God calls you to do, He qualifies you for the calling.

So, my children won't get to experience school like I did. My children most likely won't experience high school like I did. My children most likely won't get to be Homecoming King or Queen. They most likely won't get to experience senior superlatives. My children won't get to experience the many things that I did in school. However God provides a peace that passes all understanding (Philippians 4:7) and I have peace that my children will not experience what I did. Even though I had a great experience in public school, I have realized actually that I do not want my children to experience what I did. I want my children to experience something better. And isn't that what most parents desire for their children? 

As I continue this journey of being a Homeschooling Dad, I am looking forward to what the Lord is going to do in my children's lives, in my wife's life, and in mine. Being the Homecoming King was a season in my life, however now I am a Homeschooling Dad and I must be instant in season and out of season. The Lord makes no mistakes and I believe this season will be the much more profitable than the previous season. The previous season was focused on what this world can offer however this new season, this new calling, is focused on what God can offer in this world and in the the next. For one day any accomplishments in this world will burn up but the accomplishments made for the Lord will last forever! The Bible says "Blessed is the man that trusteth in the LORD, and whose hope the LORD is" (Jeremiah 17:7), so that is exactly what I am going to do! 

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